Just found this thought-provoking article written by Danielle Sullivan on Yahoo Shine in Sept 2011. Worth the read.
Perhaps you’ve gotten “caught up in the flow” of some of these behaviors and cannot yet see how destructive they can be to your relationship with your husband and children as well as your in-laws. Take heart! Count it as water over the dam and decide to begin anew.
Are there any of these principles that you might need to begin practicing … today?